A couple of stories have surfaced in the media this week and it reminded me of another from a while ago.
Tony Veitch’s alleged attack on his partner which according to the media was so severe his partner needed to use a wheelchair afterwards.
Derek Fox’s violence towards his partners 30 or 40 years ago and 15 years ago.
And there’s Trevor Mallard’s shameful violence last year.
Veitch has gone from having a sparkling career to appearing to lose it all. He’s suspended from his media jobs, isn’t getting to cover the Olympics and is no longer offered as a celebrity speaker. The only person still seemingly stading by him is is fairly new wife. Veitch came out very publicly, forced by the media really but still said more than he had to. He admitted he did it but not the details. He admitted he paid compensation to his former partner. He said he’s been getting help for his violence. He said he’s not excusing his actions. So with such a public admission the police may now investigate. The country seems shocked and apalled but not as angry as I’d expect.
I then compare that to Fox. He’s keeping fairly quiet on his past. Again he’s been outed by the media. From reports it seems the police have been aware of incidents in the past but Fox was not prosecuted. The Maori Party are so desperate to win the seat from Parekura Horomia they have rallied around Fox. They do police checks on potential candidates but of course if you’re not prosecuted nothing’s going to surface – till the media start digging.
Lastly there’s Mallard. He punched another politician, Henrare, after he made comments about his personal live. Mallard was not made to resign. He was barely punished – he was demoted from 7 to 10 in cabinet and lost his favoured porfolios of sports and rugby world cup. A private citizen took him to court. Bloggers fumed with indignation at the apparent leniency with which Mallard was treated.
Based solely on media reports I can see the levels of violence were different in each circumstance but violence is violence. One thing disturbs me most of all. If the violence has some political implication, the person doesn’t entirely get away with it but it is treated solely as a political issue and for point scoring. And then there’s Veitch who I think is in that other category this nation always wants to forgive – the sportsman. Okay, so he’s not a sportsman but he reports on it and it is the same key audience he shares with those who participate in sports. The country is shocked by Veitch but just like the behaviour of so called sporting role models who drink to excess and behave badly, the country seems too quick to forgive.